Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Children Learn what they LIVE




I just love the following poem by Dorothy Law Nolte, she sums up the essence of being a parent in this one poem!  Each second you spend with your child is precious, each word you speak can influence his / her future.  Always guard your tongue and speak words of encouragement, comfort and grace filled words to uplift your child.  Above everything else, enjoy each precious second with him / her, because they do grow up much to fast!

Children Learn what they live by Dorothy Law Nolte

If a child lives with criticism
He learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility
He learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule
He learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame
He learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerace
He learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement
He learns to have confidence.
If a child lives with praise
He learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness
He learns justice.
 If a child lives with security
He learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval
He learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance and friendship
He learns to find love in the world.


Happy learning and growing for the rest of the week with your little one! 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Boost your child's self confidence

It is so important to boost your child's confidence in herself and her skills. here is a few quick tips:

* Smile when your child enters the room.
* Listen when your child is trying to talk to you. Don't pretend to listen, if you are busy at that moment, rather tell your child that you really want to hear what she is saying and that you just have to quickly finish what you're doing, and then you will give her your full attention. (then obviously do what you said)
* Keep your promises no matter how difficult.
* Spend time with her and do something she wants to do.
* Give her age appropriate choices and support her choice.
*Ask her opinion.
* Hug her often!
And enjoy your child!
A nurtured, loved and respected child will have confidence in herself and her abilities and she will be well on her way to being well rounded happy, self motivated adult!